Does this sound like you? You look at other women’s sessions and think “That girl’s got it all together! I could never look like that!” And you think she must know how to pose and knows exactly what to bring to a session. What to wear and what makeup looks great. Well, if this is you… I’m going to let you in on a little secret – no one has their shit together. NO ONE. Every woman has their doubts and insecurities before booking a session. Don’t fool yourself into thinking there is someone out there who has it all together and doesn’t get nervous before jumping into something! Here’s what I tell all my ladies when we chat to help them find the confidence to book a boudoir session!
NO ONE KNOWS WHAT TO BRING
Unless they’ve booked a session with me before, no one knows what to bring and that’s where I come in. I know what you need to bring and I give you all that information the moment you book with me. You get a welcome email with a guide that goes over everything – what to expect, what to bring, etc. The following emails that follow up to your session date will always remind you and encourage you to look back at the guide. My job is to prep you for your session.
NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO POSE
No one comes into my studio knowing how to pose, even if they’ve been in my studio before. It’s not like breathing, you aren’t supposed to automatically know how to do it. Every client is a normal, everyday woman who is already superwoman in her day-to-day life. Every woman that I consult for a boudoir session, openly admits, “I just don’t know how look sexy.” or “I just wouldn’t know how to pose myself.” If this is YOU, you are in good company. I get into every pose and show you how it looks and then I encourage you to follow suit.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT
I’m sure you’ve written down on your list of why you can’t do a session yet – that extra 10lbs that’s still hanging around after creating life that you keep telling yourself that you are going to get rid of. And that if you just got rid of it then you’d be beautiful. I’m here to tell you that’s horse shit, and you know it. You are beautiful the way you are and it’s my job to help you fall in love with the body you have, not the body you think you should have to live up to some crazy beauty standard likely created by a man. Trust me, I get it, I am a very plus-sized woman – I always think, if I just lose the weight I’ll be more confident. But confidence has nothing to do with weight and everything to do with your mental health!
I take care of everything…
I am with you from start to finish of this whole experience – planning your outfits, your hair, and makeup, guiding you through every pose. Need a checklist of what do before your session? I’ve got that for you. Need help figuring out how to make your skin look perfect for your session? I’ve got a plan for that too. You will feel 110% prepared for your day. You will treasure the time you spend in my studio forever. AND you will want to do it again.
Ready to fall in love with yourself again?
Now is your time. Book your experience. You can book any day as far as a year out so you can take as long to plan as you’d like.
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